They do actually exist in real life. FOR REALS YO!!! For example if you are text flirting with a girl and she doesn’t notice that could be a helpful hint. Oh another fine example if a girl seriously says no when you “jokingly” ask her to marry you, that could be a helpful hint. An unrelated example is when someone has pushed their plate away, has folded their arms while leaning back in a chair, those are helpful hints.
Life is full of them and you should pay attention. This is important because when you think you are building something these signs will let you know what your progress is. The reality of the situation is that you cannot have a real actual relationship with someone based on text messages that only go one way. If you are the only one asking the questions or initiating the conversation you should move on. Furthermore a relationship cannot be a relationship if you don’t actually spend time with the person during normal hours of the day. Don’t be so delusional that you miss out on what is right in front of you.
If you want to date a girl pick a girl in your league. Pick a girl who is interested in you. And pick a girl who actually tries to be with you. If you want to pick a girl who is out of your league, more power to you, but be sure you get to know her so you know how to woo her. Like if she has a blog, read it! It could be instructions (just saying). If you pick a girl who is interested in you, really? Are you a masochist? Why wouldn’t you want to be with someone who wanted you? If you think it is just because she doesn’t know the real you or has come to the reality that you are the one, then examine the facts. Facts being the time you have known each other, the time you have spent together and the amount you know about her. If she isn’t interested in you maybe you don’t actually know her the way you think you do. If you pick a girl who doesn’t try to be with you maybe there is a reason. And I don’t mean she doesn’t stalk you so you should move on. I actually mean that if she doesn’t ask you about your day when you ask about hers she probably doesn’t care.
Please just notice the helpful hints and take them to heart.
